







After a while
You learn the subtle differences between holding a hand and chaining a soul.
And you learn
That love doesn’t mean leaning, and company doesn’t mean security.
And you begin
To learn that kisses are not contracts, and presents are not promises.
And you begin
To accept your defeats with your head up and your eyes open, with the grace of an
adult, not the grief of a child.
And you learn
To build all your roads on today because tomorrow’s ground is too uncertain for plans.
After a while
You learn that even sunshine burns if you get too much.
So plant your own garden
And decorate your own soul, instead of waiting for someone to bring you flowers.
And you learn
That you really can endure . . .
That you really are strong . . .
And you really do have worth.

If that is how you feel, think again, and remember that you are spirit daughters/sons of the most creative Being in the universe. Isn’t it remarkable to think that your very spirits are fashioned by an endlessly creative and eternally compassionate God? Think about it—your spirit body is a masterpiece, created with a beauty, function, and capacity beyond imagination. But to what end were we created? We were created with the express purpose and potential of experiencing a fulness of joy. Our birthright—and the purpose of our great voyage on this earth—is to seek and experience eternal happiness. One of the ways we find this is by creating things.
You may think you don’t have talents, but that is a false assumption, for we all have talents and gifts, every one of us. The bounds of creativity extend far beyond the limits of a canvas or a sheet of paper and do not require a brush, a pen, or the keys of a piano. Creation means bringing into existence something that did not exist before—colorful gardens, harmonious homes, family memories, flowing laughter.
What you create doesn’t have to be perfect. So what if the eggs are greasy or the toast is burned? Don’t let fear of failure discourage you. Don’t let the voice of critics paralyze you—whether that voice comes from the outside or the inside.
If you still feel incapable of creating, start small. Try to see how many smiles you can create, write a letter of appreciation, learn a new skill, identify a space and beautify it."
